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The 7 Hour Rule

You wanna know why it seems like most guys lose interest as soon as he gets in your pants? Well we are finally gonna bust this myth once and for all. Introducing the 7 hour rule…

Have you ever noticed that if you look back on all the men you have slept with that it took approximately 7 hours for him to get you into bed? Obviously there are exceptions to every rule and if you are a super prude or mega-slut than the 7 hour rule would be more like a 2 month rule or 7 minute rule respectively.

Lets find out if you’re a 7 hour girl…

Think about that last guy you were with, what happened. Maybe you met him on a Saturday night, talked for an hour and then gave him your number. You then exchanged numerous texts throughout the day Saturday and Sunday and set up a date on Monday to meet for drinks. The date goes great and he invites you over to check out his stamp collection, one thing leads to another, and before you know it, you are feasting on his throbbing cock like a fat kid at an all you can eat buffet. You spend the night together, hopefully go for round 2 the next morning and you go home and tell all your girlfriends about this amazing guy who rocked your world. And then… you never hear from him again. Coincidence, I think not!

So what happened? Why did this asshole not call you back?

Answer: Because you only spent approximately 7 hours with him before he got in your pants.

In most cases in today’s technologically advanced society it takes even less then 7 hours. The 7 hours comes from the fact that it will take most girls approximately 7 hours to feel comfortable enough with a guy to sleep with him. But let’s take a closer look at the example I gave above. You spent 1 hour with him when you met him and maybe 3-4 on the first date before you dropped your panties. Total face time = Less then 7 hours.

If a guy only has to put in less than 10 hours of face-time with you, he never feels like he had to work for it and it makes you seem like less of a catch. Guys like a challenge so if you are looking to land a man, and you are hoping that he is the one, make sure you keep the chastity belt on for at least 10 hours and just to be safe, 20 is a better bet. Don’t forget, text, facebook, and BBM time does not count as face time. Don’t forget, the number 7 in this case, is not your lucky number.

Lame Internet Marketers

What's up with these retards who spam people's blog comments and emails with bullshit about sexual enhancement products these days... Over the past few days I've gotten like 10,000 annoying emails about "use cialis to turn her on" or "viagra for cheap." This leads me to two theories:

1. Either these retarded techniques of marketing drugs online work and losers are actually opening these spam emails and buying products from these jamokes, or...

2. They are completely wasting their time because the bastards have no jobs, all the time in the world or some ding dong is paying them to spam the internet in effort to push their products.

Well either way, im angry!!! LOL. If anyone can join me in my whining and complaining, please leave a comment so I can feel validated! Then we can form an army, hunt them down and piss on their rug.

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Let's Get Real

You are .003% away from being great with women… This article was posted today in the Inner Confidence Forums, it is a must read if you are looking to improve your relationships.

LET’S GET REAL
by Jeff Olson

“Okay, doubling a penny in a story is all very well. But I don’t see anyone offering to double my money every day for a month, not in real life. Besides, even if I could get compound interest on a money account, how am I supposed to add up compound interest in health, or relationships, or knowledge?”

Fair enough. Let’s change the question. Forget about doubling for a minute, and let’s forget about compound interest, too, for the moment. Let’s just add a penny every day, not double the penny. Do you think you could improve yourself-your health, your knowledge, your skills, your diet, your relationships, whatever area of life you want to look at – just one percent?

Wait – before you answer that, let’s make it even smaller. What if you were able to improve yourself, today, just three-tenths of one percent? That’s a 0.003 improvement – a very Slight Edge indeed. So slight, in fact, you might have a hard time even knowing how to measure it.

Now, what if you did that again tomorrow, and the next day, and kept it up every day for the next year? Remember, you’re not going to add up compound interest this time, you’re just adding on another three-tenths of one percent each day.

Here’s what will happen. The first day you’ll improve by 0.003, so little it will probably be impossible to notice. The second day, your improvement will be 0.006; the next day, 0.009, almost a full one percent. And by the end of the year, you will have improved by one hundred percent.

Doubled.

You will be twice what you are today – twice as fit, twice as wealthy, twice as skilled, twice as happy…twice as whatever it is you’ve been working on, in whatever areas you apply your daily three-tenths-percent effort. Twice the you, in just one year!

If you give yourself a year to do it, you can become twice the person you are today. Imagine having twice the net worth, twice the personal relationships, twice the health. Making twice the positive impact on the world. Having twice as much fun and enjoying twice the quality of life.

How could you possibly accomplish this? By trying twice as hard? Working twice as many hours? Have twice as positive an attitude? No – by improving three-tenths of one percent at a time.

Every day, in every moment, you get to exercise choices that will determine whether or not you will become a great person, living a great life. Greatness is not something predetermined, predestined or carved into your fate by forces beyond your control. Greatness is always in the moment of the decision.

But you have to start with a penny. And that’s the great and tragic irony of it, the sad and terrible tale of the ninety-five percent: that little penny seems so insignificant, so small, so silly…why even bother to bend over and pick it up? After all…

Can you imagine walking into your bank to deposit a single penny into a savings account? Can you imagine looking in your savings account, deposit box or piggy bank, and finding a balance of $0.01? It might as well be a balance of zero, right? How much difference is there, right? I mean, we’re talking about one penny! What could you buy with a penny?

You just might be able to buy financial freedom for the rest of your life.

– Jeff Olson

So ask yourself, what can I do tomorrow to make this happen? And what can I do the day after that, and the day after that. Chances are you will make it a few days and then quit. Lets change that, for a limited time, our forums are going to be open to anyone on our mailing list. So join while it is still free. Sign up on our blog at http://innerconfidence.com/blog/forum and post your plan of action to get the support you need. - Robbie

How To Become Awesome With Women in 3 Months

Why do some men get good with women in 3 months when it took me 3 years? Read on for a chance to qualify for a FREE Coaching Call to DRASTICALLY IMPROVE YOUR RESULTS FAST.

I recently looked back on my 3-year journey of becoming a man who has CHOICE with women and made a startling DISCOVERY...

I asked myself the question: "Why did it take 3 years to get good?" I mean, 3-years is a LONG time and I remember how it felt. Sometimes I felt like I was improving at a light-speed but most of the time, it seemed like nothing was changing. I realized that all the progress I made happened in 3 distinct months... but those 3 months were scattered throughout the 3-year period. This led me to a fascinating discovery....

I realized that I was only taking the consistent action that was inline with my goals about 1/10th of the time! The rest of the time, I was taking action, but I wasn't sure exactly what to do and I didn't know whom to turn to. My friends gave me advice and I did a lot of trial and error but most of the time it felt like I was dragging myself through the mud.

The interesting thing I noticed is that I would only really improve when I knew EXACTLY WHAT TO WORK ON. You see, practice makes perfect, but if your practicing the wrong things, or not practicing at all, you might even start to slip backwards.

Do you REALLY know what you should be working on to improve and get this stuff handled?

If not, then I HAVE A SOLUTION FOR YOU. Brian and I know the importance of getting off your butt and taking action. It is a masculine quality that 99.9% of guys who are good with women have. So here is your chance to get in action and it starts right now.

If you take a few minutes to answer these questions and submit your response, you will be eligible to receive a FREE 1-Hour Coaching Evaluation with either myself or Brian. In the call we get to the heart of some of your challenges with women, and help you evaluate an appropriate course of action moving forward. I can't promise that we will be the perfect match solution for your particular situation, but I can promise you'll leave with a much better understanding of what is holding you back and what can help you. That means you won't have to waste tons of time and money on programs that won't ultimately help you to achieve your goal in the fastest way possible. It is a $149 dollar value but it's free IF you reply within the next four days. We will not be able to respond to everyone so we will choose who we think will benefit the most from the call based on your answers. Here are the five questions:


1. How long have you been in the dating community and why did you join? (be specific)

2. What is your biggest frustration with your ability to meet women right now?

3. Does this same problem/frustration effect the other areas of your life? How so?

4. What have you been doing in the last month to improve? Has it been working? Why/Why Not?

5. What do you want instead? What do you think is a realistic goal for you over the next month?


If you take the time to answer these questions, I GUARANTEE you will be glad you did. The first step to change is awareness, so by answering these questions, you have already taken the first step. Please put "Evaluation Call" in the subject line and submit your responses to info@innerconfidence.com and we'll let you know if you are eligible for the coaching assessment.

Now get off your butt and take some action!

-Robbie Kramer


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Are You Getting Worse With Women?

Unless you are living under a rock, I’m sure you have heard of the phrase ‘paralysis by analysis.’ Are you guilty of it?

Lets take a common scenario…

You’re out for lunch and you see a beautiful girl window shopping. You strain to check out her long, tan luscious legs and you are feeling your attraction to her in your gut. Part of you wants to approach and the little voice in your head says… “go talk to her, she is super hot.” But then another little voice says “Yeah right, she wouldn’t like you, you are ugly, she Is way out of your league. Besides, she is probably busy and has a boyfriend and doesn’t want to be bothered, and I’m actually really in a hurry and don’t have time to talk to her anyway. And even if I did, it might be considered cheating on this girl that I went on a date with 2 months ago and never called me back.” Has this ever happened to you? If you said no, you are a POS liar!

**note** pos = piece of shit

Some people might label this approach anxiety, or the fear of rejection, but I’m gonna go ahead and label it something completely different: TYPICAL BEHAVIOR

You see, whenever you set your sights on a task, and you perceive the task as much more difficult then other tasks you have ever encountered, you are going to start freaking out. If you struggle with women, and by struggle I mean, get laid less then once a month, go on less then 10 dates a year if you are single or have not had a relationship in the last 3 years that has lasted longer then a night, then trying to approach a woman I described above is going to be a MUCH more difficult task then you are prepared to accomplish.
If you have never played basketball before, would it be smart to play 1 on 1 vs. Kobe Bryant?

So here is my advice… If you are approaching a lot of women with very little to show for it, or you aren’t approaching women at all, then STOP, because it is making you worse!

Its making you worse because there is a little thing in your head controlling your thoughts and actions. Its called your Unconscious Mind. It is 90% more powerful then your conscious mind and you are most likely a slave to it. It controls you. Without getting scientific or technical, lets just say that all of those voices that tell you not to approach steam from the unconscious mind. So if your unconscious mind is not in alignment with what you want, then its time to change that!

How do you change it?

Its pretty simple, you start to have experiences that challenge your belief systems. To give you one example, how do you think having the experience of COMPLETELY not caring what other people thought of you would change your belief system? Its what we call not being validation seeking. You might have heard a term like that before tossed around the inner game community and you can bet your ass its 100x more important than having a good DHV story. One thing you can do right now to change your belief system is go out of the house and approach 3 people with the intent to get them to say “NO” to you. And when they do, pat yourself on the back. The more daring you are, the more you will get out of this. And there are tons of exercises like these, but unfortunately, meeting and attracting women is not a solo sport, so you’re gonna need some guidance and coaching if you really want to break your patterns and become unconsciously good with women.

Brian and I are putting on a workshop on Nov. 5th where we will be doing exercises that give you an experience of having control over your unconscious, it starts with Inner Confidence Re-Pattering™. You’ll get not just the tools but the actual experience of what it feels like to be an attractive man. For more info, CLICK HERE.

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